Do I have your attention?
You may be thinking, “who the heck is proud of this condition?” Well, my friends, after decades of hiding it,
I’ve realized that my move out into the bright world of being open about it not
only sets me free, it also gives me pride.
Even though I may get the occasional blank stares and tongue-tied
embarrassment from those whom I tell for the first time, most are amazed. And this is where my pride begins. After all:
1)
Having epilepsy is a challenge that most others
don’t have to face. Depending on the
severity, frequency, and length of your seizures, as well as a few other
factors, you’ll be able to handle it with varying strength. Regardless of how easily you’re able to live
with it, others believe (sadly, right most times), that it’s extremely
difficult. And it is. With the admirable character you’ve had to
summon, you’re a hero. Be proud.
2)
Others have a pre-set picture in their minds of
what “an epileptic” might look like.
There are all kinds of us, though!
You have the chance to show them that we’re no different than others. And we’re proud.
3)
You’ve been given an opportunity to be an emblem
of a cause. Just as we’re brave, and
just as we’re like other people, we have been born with a condition worth
fighting for, something important.
You’re critical to helping people with epilepsy feel less stigmatized,
doing away with the preconceptions that those without epilepsy may have about
who we are and joining the fight for better treatments, even cures for our
condition. Be an emblem, and be proud.
OK, OK. I admit that
I may appear a bit of a Polyanna, a cheerleader for what having epilepsy can be
for you, knowing that there are challenges beyond the epilepsy itself that the
world throws at us. We not only have
heartbreaking interpersonal difficulties, but we may have problems getting
around if not able to drive, employment issues stressing our resources, and
other challenges such as depression may plague us. Nonetheless, we persist. We are brave.
And, if able to take on a perspective filled with pride, we can make a
difference.
Rock on.
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